Mitchell is three months old today! Crazy how fast time goes by but I'll be honest...I'm so glad he's past the newborn stage. It was so much harder than I remember it being and not as much fun when you have other kids and you can't just sit and stare at them all day. I love this stage because he is smiling and starting to giggle. He loves watching his siblings play and is also getting on a better schedule...sleeping through the night! Yeah! The hair..what to do with the hair?!?! It sticks straight up in the back...so awesome! So...he's had a mullet from the day he was born. George, along with all the grandmas, persuaded me NOT to cut it. The mullet lasted about 12 weeks but I couldn't take it any longer. I pulled out the kids scissors and cut it (kids scissors aren't the best for cutting hair. Just FYI)...too short and not quite straight but sooooo much better :) The damage. The end result. Look at his chubby neck...something you couldn't see with the mullet. Why would we ever want to hide those rolls?
Brie decided she wanted to have a Halloween party this year. We talked about it for weeks and I made sure she knew that SHE was in charge and needed to make all the plans. She wanted to hold it on Friday, the 30th and didn't decide to get the invites out until Thursday, the 29th. I really wanted to bag the whole thing but she was so excited...I didn't have the heart to tell her no. It's just a good thing 4th graders don't have any big plans because all three of them ended up coming and we had a great time. Cambrie served dinner which consisted of "mummy dogs" and some vegetables... Punch, and brownie coffins. They played the classic doughnut game...why is this such a hit? And they also had to find "eyeballs" in a huge bowl of spaghetti with bare feet. This ended up being a HUGE mess because you had to coat the spaghetti with oil so it wasn't sticky. My floor is STILL slippery...lesson learned! All in all it was a success and Cambrie was grinning ear to ear the whole time. She's a pro at throwing parties now :)
Everyone has a story: life experiences that have either strengthened us or made us weaker and have defined who we really are. Our story is no different; George and I were both married previously to very wonderful people who changed our lives and helped us become who we are. We each suffered a tremendous loss when our spouses (Joel and Summer) died of cancer leaving us with an unfinished story of the lives we had imagined. Through the grief, loneliness, suffering, and pain we both realized that our stories were being revised and that Summer and Joel were helping in that process.
George and I met in March of 2007. We dated for a year and it was a wonderful year full of compassion, empathy, healing, and love. My dad often talks about the tender mercies of the Lord and we both know that our lives have been touched by these tender mercies in ways we never dreamed possible.
We were married on March 1, 2008 in the Salt Lake Temple. The new revisions in our story may seem complicated but to us it's rather simple. Our kids know how much we love each other and are so happy to be a complete famiy again. They also know that "daddy Joel" and "mommy Summer" are a big part of our lives and that families are eternal and we will see them again someday. George and I often joke that "we are blessed....we think!," but the truth is we have been blessed beyond measure. We've had our trials and there are still sad days but we have each other to lean on. We now havesomeone to share things with--it feels so good to love again!